confusion?

I fell behind, I was caught up, I was too engaged yet too far astray.

the best things in life aren't things at all.

cherish the moment, live for today, but don't let tomorrow seem too far away.

flawed. I'm flawed, we're all flawed. people screw up, I know I do. sometimes, people become angry for no apparent reason, and sometimes that reason is unknown to everyone else in the world except that one person. we can never truly and fully understand another person unless we can learn to fully understand ourselves. with that understanding, we must learn to accept ourselves before we can give our heart or any part of us to another person. if we dive in too quickly or fall too hard to fast, we lose part of ourselves in the process. instead of sharing we are missing something, instead of understanding we are constantly frazzled and confused, instead of having situations play out the way we believe they should, we are left alone and confused, searching for answers. compromise is the last thing on out minds because we are too concerned with ourselves and why we are hurting, but we fail to see or acknowledge that someone else is hurting too. in order to be one, two people have to have both self-acceptance and self-understanding. only then will communication between the two be effective.